Ray Romano Reacts to His Wife's Threesome Proposal VIDEO

Actor Ray Romano has been married for 23 years now. But he still hasn't learned the key to maintaining a relationship, which is this: Never answer a hypothetical question. Actually, it's probably smarter to not answer any questions. "Do I look fat in this?" "Do I look good in this?" "Where do you want to eat tonight?" These are all potentially bad topics -- still, you have to talk sometimes, so try to respond positively if these subjects come up.

But hypotheticals are especially bad. And on 'Late Show' (weeknights, 11:35PM ET on CBS), Ray tells David Letterman how a "simple" abstract discussion about a threesome led to major trouble. Romano's wife Anna wanted to know this: If you were going to have a threesome involving my friends, which friend would it be? The correct reply here, of course, is: "None of them, honey, because I love you too much."

Or, you could just not speak. "Never answer!" Ray says. Then, he gives us an additional piece of hard-won wisdom. If you are going to reply to the "threesome" query, make sure that you understand it in the first place. "Don't name two of her friends." Yeah, the wife might still want to be included in this ménage a trois hypothetical. Not that it matters much at this point. Based on his answer to Anna's question, Ray probably won't be getting to have sex for a long, long time.

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Airport scans sexy model

A Playboy model claims that she was made to do a full body, "naked" scan at an airport because she is sexy.

According to The Sun, blonde bombshell and ex-Baywatch babe Donna D'Errico was outraged when airport security at the Los Angeles airport pulled her aside, letting her son and boyfriend through before her, only to insist she do the scan.

The 42-year-old said that airport officials stared and giggled while it was being done. "The male agent who pulled me out of line was smiling and whispering with two others and glancing at me. I was outraged," said D'Errico.

According to The Sun, once the security scan has been done images are deleted, however, D'Errico's experience has caused the public to question this. And even though D'Errico has made her displeasure known publicly, security officials at the airport insist they've done nothing wrong.

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Is cybersex cheating on your partner?

The internet makes it extremely easy to engage in all types of sexual activity – from surfing porn to meeting anonymously in chatrooms for sexual banter, sharing graphic images via adult dating sites and engaging in mutual masturbation with strangers via webcams.

These days, it’s possible to satisfy almost any type of sexual desire online, from the tame and fairly innocuous, to the more unusual – such as the Japanese-inspired tamakeri, or becoming aroused from watching a woman kick a man in the testicles.

What is cybersex?

Sitting at your computer and engaging in sexual activity with one or more people via the internet until the desired climax is achieved – that is, being sufficiently stimulated by the sexual activity to masturbate yourself to an orgasm. And usually, the people you’re interacting with climax too.

Technology has made it possible to interact on various levels, depending on the level of anonymity you choose to maintain.

You can express your sexual encounters or fantasies in writing, send graphic images of yourself or use a webcam to allow others to view you, or use a microphone to capture your sounds.

Why do people enjoy cybersex?

You can be as anonymous as you choose to be and you can live out any of your fantasies, interacting with real people.

The anonymity can be enormously liberating – you can share your darkest desires and fantasies without fear of ridicule or rejection.

You can change your gender or flirt with different sexual orientations. You can initiate sexual acts publicly, like in a group chatroom, which indulges the elements of exhibitionism and group sex.

And when it comes to what sexual acts to live out, your imagination is the limit.

The anonymity often encourages people to be more expressive and adventurous, to be willing to try new things and in the process, improve their techniques. Shy people often lose their inhibitions and some develop a level of intimacy not normally shown. Sexual conversation via the internet can be less guarded, more informative and fun.

There are also few consequences to cybersex

No STDs or resulting pregnancies, the typical issue of rejection is bypassed, and people can experiment freely without any fear of prohibition.

Cybersex is great for couples who are in long distance relationships, allowing them to be intimate and have fun even though they are apart.

If you’re in a relationship, is cybersex cheating?

This is a big debate, and there are two opposing views: on the one hand, people feel that if you are in a mutually-agreed monogamous relationship, then any kind of sex with another person or people is cheating, including cybersex.

On the other hand, there are those that feel it equates with fantasising, masturbating or indulging in porn and erotica – it arouses you to a climax but there’s been no physical contact (as in, actual touching) with a third party. As such, it’s seen as a ‘safe’ tool for sexual expression and enjoyment.

Like viewing porn, either on DVD or the internet, you’re not in the same room with the people you’re engaging with and you can’t reach out and touch each other. So you are sexually stimulated by others and your partner benefits from your increased libido – in theory, at least.

Questions to ask yourself

What happens if you’re using cybersex to replace sex with your partner, to avoid intimacy with your partner or worse – to hurt them? What if cybersex becomes more exciting than or preferable to sex with your partner?

What happens if you develop such a level of intimacy with your cybersex partner or community that you’re tempted to meet up physically?

And if you’re engaging with a website such as an adult site that allows you to ‘find’ people of similar sexual tastes who live in your area, would this simply be temptation to meet up and take it further?

These are some thoughts to consider. Perhaps another approach is to ask yourself how your partner would feel if he or she witnessed your cybersex interactions. And perhaps the toughest test of all – whether or not you would you be okay if you observed your partner having cybersex with others. 

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Julianna Margulies love in an Elevator?

"The Good Wife"'s Julianna Margulies trades in her character's buttoned up suits for some sexy lingerie in an all-new photo spread for Harper's Bazaar. Julianna says these photos are a far cry from her on-air personality.

"It's a challenge because she's so far from who I am," she says of her "Good Wife" character. "I'm not saying I'm a crazy sexual person, but she's such a repressed Wasp. I think the beautiful part of this journey she is on as a woman is that now she's finding out who she is through her work and also discovering what sexy is to her."

While many will think the actress' lacy getup in the photos are sexy, Julianna reveals what she's finds hot. "It's a challenge because she's so far from who I am. I'm not saying I'm a crazy sexual person, but she's such a repressed Wasp. I think the beautiful part of this journey she is on as a woman is that now she's finding out who she is through her work and also discovering what sexy is to her." she says.

The January edition of Harper's Bazaar hits newsstands December 21.

Katy Perry's patriotic sex appeal VH1 Divas Salute the Troops

The stars and stripes never looked so good.

Katy Perry donned several sexy outfits with a patriotic theme for the USO Presents: VH1 Divas Salute the Troops concert at Miramar, Calif., on Friday, Dec. 3, which aired two nights later on VH1.

She also treated the military men and women to performances to go with the costume changes. Let's break down each look:

Old Glory gets a sparkly skin tight update with this bustier, hot pants and thigh high boots number as Perry sings "California Gurls."

Next she tries on camo and olive but somehow doesn't succeed in blending in while performing "Girls Just Want to Have Fun" with Nicki Minaj.

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Elle Macpherson and Cindy Crawford Playboy Pictures To Be Auctioned

A series of steamy shots of ELLE MACPHERSON and CINDY CRAWFORD are going under the hammer in a Playboy auction later this month.

The sexy snaps feature the Aussie beauty completely nude in a set taken for Hugh Hefner's magazine in 1994, while Cindy Crawford can be seen cupping breasts in another racy image.

The pictures, along with a Marilyn Monroe photo, will be sold at New York's Christie's auction house on 8 and 10 December and are expected to fetch $4.5 million. Hefner says, "We're paying tribute to our greatest contributors."

WHILE other women go to great pains to defy it, the ageing process is particularly appealing to Elle Macpherson. "Only as I get older do I feel really beautiful, sexy and charismatic, enigmatic and interesting and all those things one likes to feel about oneself," Elle tells the latest issue of Harper's Bazaar.

As if to prove the point, in the fashion bible's photo shoot Elle has cloned Mrs Robinson, the movie role made famous by Anne Bancroft in The Graduate.

In the shoot, Elle is seen lounging on a bed in her underwear as a young man stands in the doorway. At 43, Elle doesn't think there is some magic elixir to living a good life.

How can you feel sexier as you get older?

Ageing is something you can't avoid, so it's better you embrace and use it to your advantage to feel sexy and young, says an expert.

"The 20s are a time that's idealized. I think it is such a time women are struggling to find their identity and figure out who they are and establish themselves in their careers but the 30s tend to be a real time of security for that very reason because we have a much better sense who have we are and that is sexy," CBS News quoted psychotherapist Jenn Berman, as saying.

"You know, one thing that's important to keep in mind if you don't start out feeling confident and sexy, you fake it until you make it. The behaviours - behaving as if you feel sexy and behaving as if you feel confident - leads women to feel confident," she said.

Jarvis agreed, saying more women in Hollywood - from Diane Keaton to Demi Moore - have been embracing their sexy side. She added, "Do you think our sense of age is changing in this country? Do you think we're taking a new approach to aging?" Berman also said more women in Hollywood embracing ageing have revolutionized the way we think about aging.

"And it's given the rest of us some hope, even though they have the advantages of plastic surgery and make-up artists and all of that, when we see someone our age or older looking great, it can be really inspiring," she said. She also said that it is important to keep the spark alive with your partner. 

Berman advised, "Make a point to make time for one another, turn off the TV, the BlackBerry ... turn off your computer, have face-to-face time with each other. And take care of yourself, make sure you are eating healthy, listening to your body, exercising and dressing in a way that makes you feel good and also have some sex, even if you don't feel like it. Sometimes, having sex can make you feel sexy and, also, sex begets sex, the more you have, the more you want."

She added communication with your partner is one of the keys to feeling sexy. "The more communication you have, the more connected and the more intimate you feel, the more confident you're likely to feel, which makes you file more sexy," she said. Read more.